I am a lover girl. Likeeee a die hard lover girl š„¹š„¹. I love with everything I have and I give my all.
Welcome to Episode 1 of my rant session. On todayās episode, I wanna rant about Loveš„¹
Anyone who knows me knows that and it reflects in my writing, the books I read, the genre of songs I listen to (I love AEO and Kotrell) and even how I talk to my Daddy in heavenš„¹š„¹
Well!! It might come as a suprise or Not that I am very much single š¤š¤šš
Itās funny thooooo⦠Cause everyone expects me to be in a relationship now.
Fun fact: Iām not even in a serious talking stage.
I genuinely feel like I donāt want to waste my time talking to any body who doesnāt know what he wants. Tbh⦠some of the men in my DM right now do not know what they want.
Iāll gist you guys of the one I met in the bus on my way to work last week. Very fine tech brooooo that know how to dress oo. Tell me why this brother had a great convo with me in the busā I gave him my contact and now itās like he doesnāt know how to keep up the vibe again. We have barely had a one minute convo on WhatsApp since the . He has not even called me fa!!! Then Imagine this man calling me ābabyā yesterday and telling me he misses me. Broooo!!! We just met like when!?? We barely even talk!! Why would you call me baby??? He even asked me to call him āMy Loveāā he says he thinks we are a good match so itās just right that we call start calling each other pet names. You that I just met??? Itās annoying and itās giving āPervvvā
Then there are the ones who know what they want but are toooooo slow or too relaxed and as a babe, you cannot help them to toast yourself.
Let me gist you of another brother in my DM too. Letās call him Brother M. Iāve known brother M for close to five years. I noticed that his manner of approach changed in recent times. Let me tell you a bit about himā Heās a fine mannn, a lover of God, dresses well but heās just there sha. No swag. Itās not an issue for me tho. Sooo Brother M started chatting me up and calling more in recent times. I did not read meaning to it till the day he said. Ahnahnn āSister B, letās just marry naā. I laughed and he said he was joking. šš I knew he was not but I didnāt say anything. Since then, he has been dropping messages one day on, one day off. Sometimes we donāt even talk for three weeks. Heheeee!!! Itās not me you will confuse oo. You want to marry me and you donāt know how to chase me well?? Why canāt you even try to build friendship first. God forbid!!! You are either all in or youāre not. I refuse to allow him lead me on without a clear idea of where we are going or what he wants.
Honestly, being a sister in Christ who loves God genuinely just makes you super careful of who you let into your space.
You love love but you do not want to do it anyhow and with the wrong man. You only want to be with who Abba approves ofā someone who loves God, goes to a Bible believing church (Cause imagine being a CCI member now and getting married to man who attends āSolution Center of Miracles and Powerā No shades to the members if thereās a church like thatš).
Anywayssssss
This post is just to encourage any single Pringle like me who loves love but wants to wait for the right time. That one who doesnāt want to give her body out to any man before marriage. That one who wants to serve God alongside her Babyyyyyyyy and Priest.
Who wants to hold his hands in church, attend Upper room by Minister Dunsin. Look into each others eyes during AEOās concert singing āMake you Feel my Loveā, Love up on each other BUT once it clocks 12:00am midnight, they Kabash together and bring down walls, destroy principalities and powers.
Anyways anywaysā¦..
Iām done rantingā¦..
Shaaaa if you have a foineee brother who is single, God fearing, works in tech šš(please Iām kidding!!šš he should just be doing well for himself cause Iām a hardworking lady who is doing well too and would not settle for a jobless man because I have been there and my eyes see shege. Gist for another day), attends a Bible believing church (if itās CCI, ohhhh thatāll be amazing tooš„¹). He doesnāt need to know how to sing, Iām an amazing singer so Iāll do the singing for us. Feel free to link us upš¤. Iām open to meeting new people šā¤ļø
If youāre a single sister that can relate Biko comment so I know Iām not alone.
Thank you for coming to my rant session todayš
See you tomorrow for episode 7 of our storyš¤š¤





For putting into words my thoughts, I love youš¤§š„¹
Mama Bella...
You. Are. Beautiful šš.
Eiii, call you "my love" after how many days keh?
Sir, please.š¤Ø