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Isabella Peters's avatar

You all truly make me so happy with your comments. I read them and I feel the love, the passion, and even the frustration😂. Thank you for caring this deeply.

Now, there are a few things I would like to clarify.

First, regarding Femi and Tammy, Tammy is like many of us. Sometimes we delay making decisions because we are afraid of the outcome. It is difficult to choose what we truly want when we know that choice may hurt someone else.

Tammy genuinely likes Femi as a person, but she does not see herself dating or marrying him. She is also clouded by her own fears and emotions. At the same time, she hides behind “God, help me make the right choice,” forgetting that God has already given her the power to choose.

That does not mean He cannot guide us. Of course He can, and He knows best. But we must also take responsibility for the choices placed before us.

As for Setto’s nature, he is an alpha male. His personality may rub some of you the wrong way. However, Tammy is also an alpha female. She would not thrive with a man who is overly calm or passive, because she has the tendency to override such a person. She needs a man who challenges her, keeps her on her toes, and matches her strength. That is what Setto represents. Still, no human being is perfect. Not Setto. Not Femi. Not Tammy. And certainly not me. God loves us in our flaws and in our growth.

The aim of this story is to remind us that none of us is perfect. Not the readers. Not the characters. Not the writer. I have made similar mistakes in my own life.

Ultimately, the One who helps us is God. He sees beyond our flaws and works in us to make us better.

My hope is that, in the end, this story ministers to us and reminds us that God truly has the best plans for our lives.

Mowasefeoluwa's avatar

And that part of Tammy wondering whether she is listening or not. My not so hot take is that most times we know the answer in our heart of hearts. Except God is having you genuinely wait on Him, I don't think He takes so long to speak or give us answers. We most times have that nudging because of course we are His children and are led by the spirit.

It's just the fear of the unknown, of not making a mistake, safety and all others that makes us not ready to get to point of conviction

I will suggest Tammy lay all her cards/fears before God. Bare her heart before Him, Be sincere, tell God how it's doing her, like talk to Him in Surrender and she will be shocked of the assurance she will receive and certainty.

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